La Calaca Village Community Agreement
La Calaca Village was created by a decades-old group of family and friends and in many ways we’re proud to say it still feels like a family. Our goal is to create a safe, inviting, and comfortable space for all campers within our village.
In order to maintain this safety, we have expectations of all our campers, as well as any performers, healers, or other guests to the community, to abide by. These expectations apply no matter where you are, whether in our village, on the art car, elsewhere at Burning Man, or outside of Burning Man at a village-related event.
- We accept the Bureau of Erotic Discourse challenge:
We accept the right of everyone to say no and be respected. This camp respects the requirement of consent before and during sex and believes that no person who is unconscious, incapacitated, or underage can give legal consent. La Calaca Village will offer assistance and help fellow Burners reach Burning Man Rangers and emergency services if necessary. - We are an ‘enthusiastic yes’ camp, where yes is an unambiguous and joyful expression of consent. If there is not enthusiastic buy-in from both parties or all members of a group for whatever activity you’re engaging in, it is considered non-consensual and a change of action is required.
- We acknowledge that levels of comfort with different circumstances can vary from person to person and even day to day. If one party feels uncomfortable, the course of action must change.
- When a camper or participant feels threatened we ask you to make your way to safety. If this is not possible in the current situation, seek the support of others as soon as you can. Once safe, please report the situation to a village leader (more details in our full policy and procedures).
Examples of incidents worthy of reporting:
- Aggressive or inappropriate yelling, chastising, or verbally violent behavior
- Inappropriately calling attention to someone’s appearance (positive or negative)
- Non-consensual touching, sexual advances, or sex
- Peer pressure to use intoxicating substances of any kind
- Following someone back to their living space without consent
This is NOT:
- Trying to ruin your fun or limiting the free spirit and joy that can be found at Burning Man.
- A document that supersedes laws and regulations at the event.
- A governing body. We do our best to create a safe space. There will be times when the simpler approach for all is to ask a camper to leave, and there are times when we will do so without further explanation.
- Turning village leadership into cops or “fun police.”
- Asking you to stop engaging in sexual activities.
- Asking you to stop offering consensual massages or touching fellow friends and family appropriately.
- A ‘consent’ community. This is an ‘enthusiastic consent’ or ‘unambiguous consent’ community - please be careful to acknowledge the comfort level and state of mind of your fellow participants and look out for their well being.